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不理智的人

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“一個理智的人應該改變自己去適應環境,只有那些不理智的人才會想去改變環境適應自己。但曆史是後一種人創造的。”

——蕭伯納

 

 

我在心理學課上向教授提起了“固執還是自信”的矛盾。

 

他在黑板上畫了一個區間,一端是“優柔寡斷”,另一端是“固執己見”。中間則是:自信、堅持、決心……

 

他的看法是。如果我們腦海中有一套分級制度,我們就能自主判斷自己是在堅持新穎甚至對其他人來說很“瘋狂”的想法,還是純粹在固執己見。

 

我覺得這說到點子上了,因爲前一晚我才寫了上一篇博客,題目剛好也是這個:固執VS自信。

 

接著,教授給我講了蕭伯納的這句名言,而蕭伯納恰好是我最推崇的作家之一。

 

之後他又給了我一個靈感:“你可以謝謝別人給你反饋,然後堅持你想走的方向,但給自己的嘗試定個時限……”

 

我請班裏的同學幫我做個試驗。一些同學非常支持我,不僅抽出時間,還爲我提供想法。

 

這就是我之後要做的事情。

 

我是個不理智的女人。

 

做自己。

 

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about Noch Noch

Enoch Li, (pen name: Noch Noch) is born and raised in Hong Kong and Australia. She has also studied / worked / lived in the US, France, UK, Japan, The Netherlands, China, and has travelled to more than 40 countries. She loves travelling and her curiosity in foreign cultures and languages has led her to enjoy her life as an international executive in the banking & finance industry. However, she was forced to take time off work in 2010 due to her illnesses and after spending time in recovery, cooking, practising Chinese calligraphy, reading and writing – in short, learning to take care of herself and letting out the residual work stress, she has transitioned into a Play Consultant for corporates interested in creative change management and employee well-being using the psychology of playfulness.