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自我讚美

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大家都知道我是一個自責大師,那麼讓我看看自己能怎樣讚美自己。也許一個像我這樣內心黑暗的人只能勉強承認天上有時候會出現彩虹,即便是在北京……

 

我會看自己的每個項目哪裡本可以做得更好;我會想知道參與每個專案的人是否認為我有幫助;每個專案的價位是否合理;每個項目裡的玩耍因素是否足夠有力。

 

但是看看所有這些我在做的項目!和銀行、MBA學生、石油集團,會計公司、分銷商、重工業……那些知名的公司,以及另外一些也許暫時在全球範圍不那麼知名,雖小但同樣有挑戰性並有趣的組織做的專案。一個朋友最近說我需要對自己少做一些批評,設定更加合理的預期。這篇博文就是想試著給自己一些榮譽。

 

所以至少我在做些事情。這值得一提,不僅是在責備自己沒做完各種自己想做的事情之前提上幾秒而已。然而,是否有進步的空間與其無關——我做到的事情已經做得足夠好。

 

我是足夠好的母親,足夠好的妻子,足夠好的諮詢師,足夠好的魚臉創始人,足夠好的和毛絨熊熊玩耍的瘋狂女人,足夠好的希望成為創意家的,腦子裡有上百萬點子等著實施的人,足夠好的作家,足夠好的小諾……

 

也許接受自己是平凡的幫助我接納了“我的平凡讓我足夠好”的概念。Donald Winnicott 會以我為豪,有一天我也會讓他為我感到自豪。

 

因為,就像你們知道的,我畢竟沒那麼平凡……

 

http://www.thebookoflife.org/good-enough-is-good-enough/

 

給Rachel

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about Noch Noch

Enoch Li, (pen name: Noch Noch) was born and raised in Hong Kong and Australia. She has also studied / worked / lived in the US, France, UK, Japan, The Netherlands, China, and has travelled to more than 40 countries. She loves travelling and her curiosity in foreign cultures and languages has led her to enjoy her life as an international executive in the banking & finance industry. However, she was forced to take time off work in 2010 due to her illnesses and after spending time in recovery, cooking, practising Chinese calligraphy, reading and writing – in short, learning to take care of herself and letting out the residual work stress, she has transitioned into a Social Entrepreneur and founded BEARAPY to help corporates make workplaces mentally healthy, and support executives to become more resilient.