多年以前，我在某處看過一篇文章，叫我們想象一下如果我們死了，我們的訃告會是怎麽樣的。你想如何被人們銘記？
我倒是有一些想法和自己的一張小”清單”，但更重要的是，我知道自己絕對不想這樣被人們記住：
“諾活了29年，生長在香港和澳大利亞，生前接受過最好的教育，擁有一份好工作並且環遊過世界。她每天都工作10至12個小時，就這樣勤勤懇懇了7年。她把時間都奉獻給了一家大公司的主管一職，良好的訓練，優厚的薪水，讓人羨慕的曝光率和豐富的經曆，可她還是一直想知道自己究竟是爲什麽，爲什麽她總是徘徊在積極樂觀的邊緣地帶。她工作十分努力並且擁有好名聲，但是她不是不可缺少的。她還有很多朋友。日子過的不錯。她曾四處度假，還把一些時間投入到慈善工作中。她已婚，有幾個孩子，擁有一套房子和一條狗。安息吧。”
平凡。讓人緊張。單調。
寫下你自己的訃告吧，過你想要的生活，而不是過你覺得你”必須”過的生活。
做自己。
翻譯：賈冬玲
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Enoch Li, (pen name: Noch Noch) was born and raised in Hong Kong and Australia. She has also studied / worked / lived in the US, France, UK, Japan, The Netherlands, China, and has travelled to more than 40 countries. She loves travelling and her curiosity in foreign cultures and languages has led her to enjoy her life as an international executive in the banking & finance industry. However, she was forced to take time off work in 2010 due to her illnesses and after spending time in recovery, cooking, practising Chinese calligraphy, reading and writing – in short, learning to take care of herself and letting out the residual work stress, she has transitioned into a Social Entrepreneur and founded BEARAPY to help corporates make workplaces mentally healthy, and support executives to become more resilient.
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