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每個人都有各自不同的情況,我們其中一些人有幸擁有當我們抑鬱時,站在身邊支持我們,心存感激,爲我們付出愛的人。然而,如果說患有抑鬱症的人會有一段艱難的時光,那麽或許,站在他身旁的伴侶面臨的是更大的挑戰。我很幸運,我的男朋友一直陪在我身邊,不論是我用頭撞牆的時候,抑或是一連哭上幾個小時的時候。也許對於那些患有抑鬱症病人的伴侶或朋友來說,這是與病痛抗爭到底,患難與共的一種激勵。

以下是一點對我男朋友的采訪,他在我身患抑鬱症期間一直照顧著我,這些是關於他在那段時間的感受以及他是如何應對的:

你一開始知道她得了抑鬱症嗎?你當時作何反應?你的感受如何?

一開始我知道有些不對勁,但是我認爲那只是壓力或者文化衝擊引起的不適。那時候,我只是想找個辦法讓諾主動放下手中的工作。我感到很沮喪因爲我不能讓她好起來,我嘗試跟她講的任何道理她都聽不進去。

 

當諾診斷爲抑鬱症時,你作何反應?
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Enoch Li, (pen name: Noch Noch) is born and raised in Hong Kong and Australia. She has also studied / worked / lived in the US, France, UK, Japan, The Netherlands, China, and has travelled to more than 40 countries. She loves travelling and her curiosity in foreign cultures and languages has led her to enjoy her life as an international executive in the banking & finance industry. However, she was forced to take time off work in 2010 due to her illnesses and after spending time in recovery, cooking, practising Chinese calligraphy, reading and writing – in short, learning to take care of herself and letting out the residual work stress, she has transitioned into a Play Consultant for corporates interested in creative change management and employee well-being using the psychology of playfulness.