Comments for nochnoch http://nochnoch.com be me. be natural. Thu, 23 Feb 2012 09:53:36 +0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 Comment on letter to my 16-year-old by veehcirra http://nochnoch.com/2012/01/31/letter-to-my-16-year-old/comment-page-1/#comment-12366 veehcirra Thu, 23 Feb 2012 09:53:36 +0000 http://nochnoch.com/?p=1088#comment-12366 Noch Noch I am really glad you like the process, it takes a lot from within, but it's so effective. You know, this post really got me thinking…that’s why I decided to respond in a post. Thanks for the inspiration. Veeh. Noch Noch I am really glad you like the process, it takes a lot from within, but it’s so effective.

You know, this post really got me thinking…that’s why I decided to respond in a post. Thanks for the inspiration.

Veeh.

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]]> Comment on the 7 links challenge by nochnoch http://nochnoch.com/2012/02/23/the-7-links-challenge/comment-page-1/#comment-12359 nochnoch Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:26:58 +0000 http://nochnoch.com/?p=2019#comment-12359 Hi Mark Yup - they are great blogs :) Very honest and true Noch Noch Hi Mark

Yup – they are great blogs :) Very honest and true

Noch Noch

]]> Comment on the 7 links challenge by nochnoch http://nochnoch.com/2012/02/23/the-7-links-challenge/comment-page-1/#comment-12358 nochnoch Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:26:44 +0000 http://nochnoch.com/?p=2019#comment-12358 Hi Benny haha sure! I look forward to the day :) NOch Noch Hi Benny

haha sure! I look forward to the day :)

NOch Noch

]]> Comment on 10 things not to say to a depressed person (and please don’t ever say to me either) by nochnoch http://nochnoch.com/2012/02/20/10-things-not-to-say-to-a-depressed-person-and-please-dont-ever-say-to-me-either/comment-page-1/#comment-12357 nochnoch Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:26:16 +0000 http://nochnoch.com/?p=1911#comment-12357 Hi Stephanie Glad you agree with me my dear friend. We suffer the same and I know you can empathize. Those were great 3 additions you put in the comments. And strangely, I had the exact same experience re (1) and have drifted away from the church as a result. I still believe that God exists and I find solace in it, but the "religion" or "the church", I'm not sure yet. Like you, I'm working out my spirituality, not religion. It's a process, and I think I can meander a little to find it. I get very turned off that some Christian friends I had would tell me I was doing something wrong when I"m soul searching... Anyways... As for (2), i totally get what you mean. I feel that some friends did that to me too, whether they intended to or not. One kept leaving me messages to say "i care about you, you can always talk to me" and "i'm worried about you since you haven't replied for so long". I didn't like that. It made me feel guilty and I felt manipulated. LIke you, i preferred to deal with it on my own terms and time. I don't need to be accountable for whoever calls me. Some other friends just sent one message, and knew me well enough that, whether i was sick or not, i would reply in my time and if i didn't, they should not bother me. Thanks for sharing your story, and the pain here, so openly. It takes a lot to do so. I'm glad we are in this together, and want to help others Talk soon Noch Noch Hi Stephanie

Glad you agree with me my dear friend. We suffer the same and I know you can empathize. Those were great 3 additions you put in the comments. And strangely, I had the exact same experience re (1) and have drifted away from the church as a result. I still believe that God exists and I find solace in it, but the “religion” or “the church”, I’m not sure yet. Like you, I’m working out my spirituality, not religion. It’s a process, and I think I can meander a little to find it. I get very turned off that some Christian friends I had would tell me I was doing something wrong when I”m soul searching… Anyways…

As for (2), i totally get what you mean. I feel that some friends did that to me too, whether they intended to or not. One kept leaving me messages to say “i care about you, you can always talk to me” and “i’m worried about you since you haven’t replied for so long”. I didn’t like that. It made me feel guilty and I felt manipulated. LIke you, i preferred to deal with it on my own terms and time. I don’t need to be accountable for whoever calls me. Some other friends just sent one message, and knew me well enough that, whether i was sick or not, i would reply in my time and if i didn’t, they should not bother me.

Thanks for sharing your story, and the pain here, so openly. It takes a lot to do so. I’m glad we are in this together, and want to help others

Talk soon

Noch Noch

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