the answer to my fears

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We read a lot about childhood development, the different stages, and the corresponding skills a child acquires from birth. Surprisingly, or not, adults have stages of development too. Kegan and Levinson have influenced this area of study and what resonates with me is that as we progress through adulthood, we come to realize that many of our behaviours used to be geared towards meeting others’ expectations. Once we are able to let go of those expectations, we start to live for ourselves.

This concept of being our own author of our lives has been moulded over by many psychologists over the years. So much theory that I sometimes cannot digest. But this is what I understand to be behind the concept: Keep Reading…

about Noch Noch

Noch Noch is born and raised in Hong Kong and Australia. She has also studied / worked / lived in the US, France, UK, Japan, The Netherlands, China, and has travelled to more than 40 countries. Noch Noch loves travelling and her curiosity in foreign cultures and languages has led her to enjoy her life as an international executive for the last 7 years in the banking & finance industry. However, she was forced to take time off work in 2011 due to her illnesses and now spends her time in recovery, cooking, practising Chinese calligraphy, reading and writing – in short, learning to take care of herself and letting out the residual work stress.